Published: Becoming Madame Memoir



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Dearest readers,

This summer a kind follower wrote me a supportive email and in that message encouraged me to write a memoir about my experiences in Paris, my move over to the city and living here. Little did she know that I was in the process of getting one such a memoir published. After five years of writing and working through the ups and downs of the publishing industry, I am so very pleased to announce the release of my book, Becoming Madame: Reminiscences of a road less taken.

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— From the cathartic decision to embrace the frightening monster of change, through to a marriage into a French family four years later, the pages of this memoir aspire to inspire, to stoke a flame within those who may be, as the author was, chained to a path of life they created for themselves years earlier yet to which they now find themselves a slave. Engaging the ever-present allure of Paris, this narrative is spiced with delicious, authentic recipes and humorous anecdotes of the iconic, sometimes hypocritical, and always-seductive mode de vie français. —

It might not be at your local bookstore, so please don’t be shy to ask for it! You can also find it on Barnes & Nobles or Amazon. And feel free, of course, to share the news.

Here’s what the editor said about the book:

— Well-written and FRESH!  Writing style easy to read, but compelling; such a positive, uplifting, “happy” read. The descriptions of her travels are so good–almost like the reader could travel there herself with the author. I loved it! —

And if the spirit moves you, a little endorsement on Amazon or Goodreads would be so very appreciated!

With my thanks, and happy reading!!


A Spanish Tradition – A Rave in France


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Do you know that Paella is regarded as the Spanish national dish? And do you know how good it is?


I first had the rice based wonder when I was visiting a friend in Valencia back in 2007 (on that road trip I speak about in the book). We ate the seafood version perched by the seaside with a glass of Sangria and I was hooked.

Once back in France, I found the dish at certain Spanish flavored restaurants, but nothing was as perfect as the one I had tasted in Valencia. In southern parts of France, in particular places like Sainte-Marie-de-la-Mer on the natural reserve called Camargue, we are overwhelmed with restaurants offering enormous wok-like pans of Paella to the passing tourist. Saffron rice, fried chicken thighs, shrimps, calamari, mussels… it’s delicious, although I never have been able to replicate that first experience.

This past summer I found myself at the seaside once more – this time at the Ile de Ré – with a sudden urge to make Paella. Seafood Paella, like the one I ate in Valencia those many years ago. I scoured my cookbooks (and the internet) to find an authentic recipe and spent one dazzling Spanish-themed evening chopping, sautéing, mixing, tasting with Francis Cabrel in the background singing La Corrida.IMG_0971

Although we were only four, we made enough for an army (probably for 15 or so, easy). And since we don’t have a paella pan, we had to use two large frying pans. Paella can get away from you!

It’s a perfect idea for a large dinner party, festive and fun. And you can make it in advance. But be careful – it takes a lot longer to make than you think. All the recipes said 1 hour total and it took us 2!

Bonne degustation!

For 12 (++) people, you’ll need:


  • 1 kg (8 cups) long grain rice
  • 1 kg (35 oz) chicken (thighs)
  • 1 kg (35 oz) mussels washed
  • 1 kg (35 oz) calamari cut into chunks or circles
  • 500g (18 oz) cod filet cut into thick chunks (or other light, white fish) OPTIONAL
  • 15 – 20 large shrimp or gambas
  • 2 chicken bouillon cubes diluted in 1 liter water or 1 liter (2 cups) chicken stock
  • 2 large red onions cut into strips
  • 400g (14 oz) white kidney beans
  • 4 – 5 cloves of garlic chopped
  • 6 large tomatoes boiled then peeled
  • 2 peppers (1 red et 1 yellow) washed and cut into strips
  • 1 spicy chorizo cut into circles
  • 3 doses of saffron
  • olive oil
  • salt & pepper to taste

You’ll also need a very large paella pan or two large frying pans (we had to divide ours into two pans in the middle – this is a large, large dish).


Prepare the ingredients in advance. Briefly boil and peel your tomatoes. Wash the mussels twice at least. Cut fish and calamari into pieces. Crush your garlic. Cut your veggies into strips.






With a bit of oil in the pan on medium heat brown your chicken on all sides.

If you have a big enough pan, push the chicken to the sides where it won’t cook anymore and add the calamari, fish and beans. Let cook in the chicken oil until calamari is browned. Stir/flip frequently. (If you don’t have a giant pan, use two.)


Add tomatoes, onions, peppers, garlic, saffron. Sprinkle lightly with olive oil.

Let cook on low heat for 10 minutes. Stir frequently. Prepare your bouillon.





Add rice, chorizo and cover with bouillon. Cover and let cook for 10 minutes on medium heat. Add bouillon as needed so that the rice cooks well and nothing sticks to the pan.



Add mussels and shrimps. Let cook on medium heat for another 10 minutes or until the mussels are all open (throw out any mussel that does not open with the rest) and the shrimp are pink.


Taste: once the rice is cooked, the mussels open, shrimp pink, it’s ready!