An inside look into real life in the City of Lights and Love. I’m an American turned Madame who lives in the heart of the French capital. Come along as I open up the world of the French from the inside – les marchés, Soldes, boulangeries, cafés… Through my posts & videos experience what life is really like as a resident in Paris.
What makes this blog different? Read the response to that question posed by a reader here.
This is a site where Francophiles can get an inside peek on what real life is like in Paris, France from the perspective of an American who came to France as a visitor and who fate has brought into the center of French life. Here you’ll learn about what living in Paris is like, not as a tourist or student life, but what it is like to be a Parisian and belong to a very old, traditional, French family; all the customs, the quirks and the charm of a real French life.
Our second goal is to introduce and put into action our concept of Green Chic Living. This is an idea we have about living in tune with the environment through our shopping habits and daily routines without becoming a hippy, granola eater who doesn’t shave her armpits. No, I’m joking. (I have nothing against hippies.) But the style and lifestyle isn’t for everyone and so over the last several years we’ve discovered – through keen observation of the French – a ton of ways people can make green decisions and maintain a chic lifestyle. No need to serve your dinner guests on moss-covered plates or reuse toilet paper. (Although 100% recycled fiber TP is definitely a good choice!)
Our topics range from cooking to outings in Paris, from the markets (les marchés) and shopping to transportation and the best places tourists don’t know about, from wine and entertaining à la française to giving a Parisian dinner party, from the best places to vacation in France and Paris to eating like the French (think: proportions, eating in season, and sitting down at a table).
If you have a topic or a question about Paris or France that you’d like us to do a video on, feel free to write us. We have a stock pile for the time being (thank you to those who have already given suggestions!!), but are always very interested in what you like best and what interests you the most.
Lastly, Becoming Madame was created for people who, like us, still believe in traditional family values, think that doing right by the environment should be a given, and yet who may have trouble finding a source of those values in their everyday lives. I want to share with you what I’ve learned from being immersed head first into this new culture and from being a member of a family who embodies the very essence of the French style de vie.
Hope you enjoy!
Contact: becomingmadame@gmail.com
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Interesting. I’ll follow this so that I can gain a better perspective on French life.
Beautiful and breathtaking. Truly an amazing blog. I look forward to following your stories.
Thank you very much carolinajade for the encouragement! I truly appreciate it.
lovely blog and fabulous ideas! it’s great to see your european adventure. cheers!
Your posts about your new country and way of life are both insightful and charming so I’ve passed along the “Versatile Blogger” award to you (http://gayleen5.wordpress.com/2011/12/03/saturday-december-3rd/). I look forward to following your continuing adventures in La Belle France.
Thank you so very much!
I feel somewhat like an armchair voyeur, except your blog is so inviting!
Your blog concept sounds interesting, I am all for seeing how people really live and cultural immersion. I’ll be following your posts. Great intro!
What a lovely blog!
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I love your blog! Very different from my India version of living abroad, but I am sure the same in many ways too. ♥ Thanks for the like today.
I was delighted by your intriguing blog! I loved living abroad and now you expand my world,
Very interesting idea for a blog. I love Paris so will look forward to reading more. Thanks for liking my blog so that I could find yours!
~Emily~
Thank you for liking my post about my favorite (and only) french scarf. I love Paris and your blog really brings back what I love about Paris.
I love your blog. Thank you!
Great idea. I can expand my horizon without leaving my living room,and that’s terrific right now, since I can’t afford to get out of the state I’m living in,let alone the country, at this time.
Soooo excited to find your blog. J’aime Paris! I’ll probably become a “cling-on” to your blog!
Thanks so much, Judy! Happy Holidays!
Awesome intro! Being an American Expat myself w my family in Switzerland, I cant wait to dig deeper into your blog. We have been to Paris a few times and LOVE it, cant wait to return when the weather is nicer.
Thanks for stopping by! Come over to Paris is April! It really doesn’t get any better than that!! Happy Holidays!
PS thanks for the liking my One-Day Stand with Paris! Hope we can stay in touch!
I clicked across to see what you were all about because you “liked” my blog post and I’m glad I did. Your blog looks really interesting! I studied French in high school right up to Year 12 and even thought that is many years ago I still remember a fair bit of it. I’m looking forward to learning more about France and dreaming of a day when I might go there!
Thanks so much for stopping by!
Thanks for the “like” at Necessary Miscellany! Stop by again sometime and I wish you the best!
Hi there! Thanks for checking out my blog and for liking my recent photo post. It’s very appreciated and encouraging! Also, thanks for the opportunity to check you out here. Very cool blog you have here…..
Thanks again and best wishes for 2012!
Hello
Thanks for liking my blog post.. I’m so happy I discovered your blog, very interesting and inspiring!
so.. I was awarded a Liebster Blog award recently
and in keeping with the requirements, I am now forwarding it on to you. I haven’t been following long, and am unsure whether you fit the parameters (up and coming blog with less than 200 followers) but I love your style and I like to pass along props when I can 
Tune in tomorrow to receive your award!!
Thank you so much!! Very kind of you.
Thanks for reading my post on penne campagnola http://marrylallwrite.com/2012/01/09/penne-campagnola/
I love reading and looking at pictures of France. I’ll be following your blog to see more of your stories in your new life in Paris.
I love this! Thank you for sharing!
You have a beautiful site and I love watching your videos!
What a great blog! Thank you for reading and the “Like” on mine.
I like your blog too.Thank you for visiting my blog.
Love this. Paris holds a special place in my heart. The food, the scenery, the atmosphere. Look forward to reading your blog!!
I’m afraid you may have just been hacked. I received a strange post VIA my RSS feed called “jesusknowsmyname.com” but WordPress can’t find it. Your main blog page is redirected to this unknown page also.
I do love your posts and have even tried several of your great food ideas.
Bill
Hi Bill, thanks very much for letting me know. In fact, I was trying to reply to a reader and somehow ended up publishing her blog name. I apologize for the inconvenience. It was very kind of you to give me the heads up in any case!! Take care.
Ah, Now I understand. Keep the good posts coming!
Bill
Hi there. I wanted to say, thank you for stopping by my blog and for liking it enough to consider following it.
I should mention that I am a fan of anything that has to do with French food, especially the delights that can be found in Paris. That’s probably what attracted me to your blog in the first place.
Take care,
S.
Ahh the memories! I lived in Paris, and married in Paris and am now back in the UK. I visit Paris at least 4/5 times a years as I still have family there. We have a very long lineage of ancestors born in France so it is close to my heart…I shall follow your blog with interest. Thank you for visiting my blog and clicking the ‘like’ button, It is very much appreciated.
Darling,
Thanks for looking at my Xmas dinner. Slightly after the dinosaur age, I was a busker in Paris. LUV the city and the country. May be there next year. Was supposed to be this year, but too many conferences.
Look forward to your posts.
As a French Canadian, I’m really looking forward to exploring Paris here! I never really had a desire to see it, but just a few posts that I’ve read tells me I may change my mind really quickly!
Thank you for the “like” on my blog! I’m a new blogger, and it’s a big boost for me! xo
Lovely and interesting blog…leaves me intrigued x
Hi,
I have nominated you for the Kreative Blogger award, I hope you’ll accept! Details are in today’s blog here – http://mike10613.wordpress.com/2012/02/05/the-kreativ-blogger-award/
Thank you Mike, very much! I accept with pleasure! Thanks so much for thinking of Becoming Madame!
Paris had never been on my wish list of places to visit but my wife and I ended up spending a week there in 2010 (long story). Absolutely loved it and can’t wait to go back again. In light of that, I’m sure I’ll really enjoy reading your posts in the future!
Bonjour! Thank you very much for liking my post about Leura Village. I like your tips on being an expat since I will be working in a different country soon and paperwork can be difficult but it’s definitely gonna be worth it.
I have a recent post about a historical mansion in the 1900s found in among sugarcane plantations. I hope this would be equally appealing.
http://joxtapose.wordpress.com/2012/02/08/romantic-ruins-the-lacson-mansion-talisay-city/
I see we both adore Dave, at Dave’s Delish Dish! Thank goodness for me that I saw your post because it gave me the opportunity to visit your blog. How I envy you living in Paris! I can’t wait to sit down and go through your posts and vicariously live your Parisian lifestyle.
Thank you for stopping by my blog!
elisa
Hey, just stopped by to say thanks for your like on my blog and have been checking out yours – and loving it. I’ve just clicked follow. I used to be fluent in French (now Spanish has pushed it to a hard to get at corner in the back of my brain) and I worked in Nice for a while. Hopefully your blog will inspire me to refresh my knowledge (and visit France more!)
I’ve been wandering around your blog for the past hour, and my God!! You have French recipes on Youtube! Woot, woot, I’m ecstatic!
I went to Paris years ago, fell in love with it, and have always intended to return. I was quite poor at the time, and quite happily lived off of baguettes and delicious cheese during my stay there. Now I get to read all about Paris and tidbits about daily Parisian life via your blog. You’ve made me quite the happy camper today!
Beautiful blog! Paris is one of my favourite places in the world, so I’ll be sure to follow your accounts of your experience. Thanks for the follow on my blog, http://www.sweetpursuits.com too!
I love this! You’re kind of like Julia Childs when she lived in Paris and fell in love with it!
What a lovely blog! Thanks so much for liking my recent post – I’m glad you introduced yourself! I’ll definitely be back to visit again
Thanks for stopping by. I enjoy finding new blogs and I’m so glad you found mine. Take care!
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Hi, thank you for liking my British poetry blog post!
You are welcome. It was very interesting. Take care.
Thanks, and all the best for you, and your interesting blog!
Thanks for liking my post. I enjoyed your posts, esp. your literature posts as well, so I am sure I’ll be back again.
Just came upon your blog. I am mad at myself for not discovering it earlier! Love it
I wonder how people find blogs like mine. As for yours, a great find. I’m very much a francophile as it happens, with a uni degree in French language and literature, though I’ve never been there! One of my heroes is the French writer Stendhal, a great romantic and a great sceptic. Also Montaigne, the originator of the ‘essai’. Good luck with everything.
I found your by browsing through the History tag posts, one of the subjects that passions me. Thanks for stopping by!
Hi! Thank you so much for following my blog, I’ll be doing the same to join you along your writing about such a beautiful place
What a lovely blog. It’s a feast for the eye, but also very well written and informative. I can tell you put a lot of work into it, and it brings back wonderful memories of my own all-too-brief sojourns in the City of Light. I have a particular affection for the wonderful French stationery shops – nothing feels quite like a Clairfontaine notebook as your biro glides over the pages!
Hello, thanks for liking my post. Yours looks interesting, will surely come back to it. Good luck.
Chere Madame,
Thank you lots for stopping by THATLou.com. If you’re ever in the mood for a treasure hunt at the Louvre, you know where to find me.
As for your blog it’s wonderful. Not only charming, I am a full supporter of your green endeavours.
Kind regards,
Daisy de Plume
Bonjour,
Thank you for visiting and liking my blog. Best wishes for continued success with your beautiful and informative blog.
Peace,
Deacon Paul Iacono
I love to see Paris through a foreigner perspective…
I would love to live in Paris and since that is not likely to happen, I will enjoy living there through your eyes! Beautiful blog. Did you notice the photo at the top of my blog? We took the picture when we were there in September. I am sharing your blog with a fellow-blogger turned cyberspace friend. She is obsessed with Paris in the 20s.
I did notice your photo. I wasn’t sure at first if I was seeing it correctly; I’ve never looking directly up at the center of the Tower that way. Great shot! Thank you for passing us along. All my best!
I’ve nominated you for the 7×7 Link Award…you can have a look at the details on my blog here….http://wp.me/p244yO-Ac
Thank you kindly! And congratulations to you for the award as well.
Thanks for visiting my blog, Ma’am. I’m sure I will also find interesting and stimulating things inside your blog, for there’ll always be Paris!
Au revoir!
Ricardo
hello there. nice blog
I have nominated you for the Sunshine Award:
http://aprovinciallife.wordpress.com/
Goodluck!
Thank you very much! Congratulations to you too!
I nominated you for The Versatile Blogger Award. It seems to be the equivalent of a chain letter for blogging, but it seemed fun. You can see details here: http://emilyjanuary.wordpress.com/2012/04/10/the-versatile-blogger-award/
Looks like you’ve already received it, and rightly so.
Thank you very much!
Many thanks to gingerskeeper at This Bountiful BackYard, a WordPress blog, for turning me onto this blog. After a journey to Paris and Provence in 2005, my husband and I become avid Francophiles. I can’t wait to peruse all your posts.
Jewelie Dee
http://www.anearringaweek.wordpress.com
I’m so glad you enjoy the blog! Thank you for your kind words! Take care!
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Thanks for stopping by my blog. Your blog is beautiful and chock full of so many interesting things. I love Paris (who doesn’t?) but haven’t been back since 1992. I now have a friend who I think is still living near the city. We may visit this fall. Fingers crossed. And I will bookmark the rabbit in chocolate sauce recipe!
twinkly
Twinkly, thanks for stopping by. I hope you have an excellent visit to the city this fall!
I’ve never visited Paris and like most people have a romanticized idea of what it will be like when I finally get there! Getting a new perspective on The City of Love from one who knows will be very interesting
Love the title and concept of your Blog
Will be back for more! Thanks for stopping by mine
Paris seems like the place to be. Thank you for stopping by our blog and following it.
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I’m extremely impressed with your writing skills and also with the layout on your weblog. Is this a paid theme or did you customize it yourself? Either way keep up the nice quality writing, it is rare to see a nice blog like this one nowadays..
lovely blog……Paris is so special and you are so lucky to live there to experience it all first hand!!!
You know I love your blog, and always enjoy reading your new posts. For this reason, I am nominating you for The Versatile Blogger Award!
Thank you kindly! I appreciate you saying that!